Lot of times i hear people saying dat person has hurt me a lot ..............
I strongly feel no person can hurt us unless and until we allow them to......
If the person is taking you for granted every now and then....
Try to recollect the first instance you allowed him to take you for granted....
If the person always ends up arguing with u.....
When was the first time u let him do dat?
If the person has hurt your feelings ......
dat means u made urself weak in front of that person
or u might have kept very high expectations from dat person
If the person has left you....
Then either u never understood him
or he failed to understand you
Every relationship required contribution from both
So if the relationship fails.......
Y blame only one person for dat?
Lets own and acknowledge our mistake every time we get hurt....
and move ahead...
Rather than blaming others and allowing us to get hurt again.
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