Will love hurt?

Some people fear to fall in love .........
and the fear is that other person will cheat dat person......

but the Q is that .... Is this fear valid?

Lets see.....

A person u love hurts u..... It hurts badly.

So bad dat we think our life has ended....
people even at once think of finishing their life.

When u fall in love u tend to get alienated with the rest of the world....
and when u break-up u'll find that suddenly u r left all alone in the world....
friends who were there for you earlier, u've lost touch with them.
so what to do? A big world and your are hurt and all alone.

No one is there around to heal you
No one is there with whom you can share ur feelings

Every guy will think you are too weak
and you are exaggerating this situation.

Worst situation to be in.... isnt it.
life is really bad ........... Right.

WRONG.......!!!!!!
Its not that i am sensitive to what you are bieng through.....
i know itz though.... really though.

But i've seen people getting over it... leading a much better love life thereafter.

Every Relationship whether good or bad, teaches us something.
End of every relationship actually:

• is a begining for a new relationship.
• leaves something to learn from.
• makes us more strong and matured.

Sometimes a break-up becomes essential, because we fail to understand what relationship is all about.

I've seen people falling love, they treat this relationship totally differently.

They tend to become more possessive and spend majority of time only with each other.

and then the fear of insecurity creeps in.

Then come series of soft domination and dicating... demanding more time and attention.

it goes n goes till one person feels enough is enough and decides to break-up.

I keep saying this Expectations and insecurity are key for failure of any relationship. We dont realise this earlier till we lose one relationship due to same.

Its very easy to blame the other person for failure, but we need to understand every relationship requires two people and both are responsible for everything good and bad in that relationship.

Point i wish to make is relationship will hurt you and hurt you bad, but dont fear it.

Eventually you'll end with the relationship u always had dreamt about. There is no gain without risk and u need to take the risk.

Relationships.........!!!!

Everyone talks about this..........

Sometimes we feel happy talking about it, sometimes we feel sad.......

But no one can even imagine life without it.....

So watz dis Relationship is all about.

Some Relationships may be forced... as people will think there is no way to get out for this relationship (which i feel is totally wrong)
Some are assigned by Birth .....
And some "WE CHOSE"

But Realtionship are give and take at some point or the other.

Every relationship has some component attached to it, which one may experience conciously or sub consiously.

People may not agree with this statement, but it is actually a foundation to any relationship.
It may not be only monetary or any other physical things.

A Friend will expect his friend to be there with him during all good and bad times......
Parent will toil for the future of their children and expect them to be there for them during their old age.
Love would expect the special one to make them feel special and cared all the time.

Every Relationship comes with some commitment and responsibilites towards dat relationship.
But i sincerely feel that though we should acknowledge our commitment and responsibilities towards that relationship, we should not expect much from the same.

Expection, Insecurity and possesiveness are some of the key reasons for ending any good relationships.

We tend to lose the relationship sometime only due to fear of losing the same.

We need to understand that every person has his own priorities and sometimes his priority may not match ours.

What is important is that we make every moment we share together in that relationship special rather than thinking that we may lose it sooner or later.

No relationship is permanent, but the memories we share during that relationships will last till eternity as we do cherish them every now and then.

So Guyz lets make every relationship as special and memorable as we can.