Complaints in life.......

Lot of people including me ... Do complain about lot of things in life.

We often tend complain about ......

• People
  
• Situations
• Relationships
  

But i honestly ask myself ...

Will a person or a situation or a Relationship change for me just because i am not comfortable with it?

Will complaining about the anything have any impact in terms of improving the same?


Answer obviously is NO.... so if the answer is NO then "Are we not wasting our time and energy on complaining?"

If complaining doesn't help then we should we do?

• Can we change the thing we r not comfortable with?
• Should we live with it?
• Can we get rid of it?

Change does sounds great ..... but we tend to forget be it people situation or Relationship, none of these are solely driven by you. There are others involved in the same and you may or may not be able to change them for your comfort.
If you plan for change.... Great!!! but u need to prepare yourself that you don't get disappointed when things don't move your way.You need to even realize that you may even end up hurting the person or the relationship u wish to change against his wish.

But if we cant change it then should we live with it? Hard to accept but i am sure there is lot of time when we have no options but to live with it and hoping the things will change someday for us.
Sometime for achieving something larger we do compromise on some things which were not relevant at that point of time, there is no point in complaining about it later on 'cause that is the choice you've taken, you have to live with it.

Isn't it easy to get rid of it. We do it lot of times and most of the time we don't feel good about it. The scar of the wound remains within us.i don't know about others but felt really bad when i had chose this option in life.

So should we Change it,Live with it or Escape it.... what should we do?

How about this......FACE IT......

Most of the time things which looks too bad for us, might not be actually that bad.... It might just be our perception.
Some times we just don't want to accept the reality and try to escape from the fact.
Why fail to analyze and understand why this is happening to us.

So why not face it?

I strongly feel we always have a significant role in whatever we are facing today.
If a person is not listening to you today, may be we were too lenient to that person earlier and now he cant take you expecting him to listen to you now.
If you find it difficult to finish your work in time then you have accepted too much of responsibility than you could actually do.

So y not probe ourselves before we complain about anything happening to us......
Why not try to understand why we are in this situation rather than complaining.....

Lets face the situation.....
Lets keep ourselves open for change rather than trying to change things around us.
Lets not run away from it. Rather we should in turn accept the current situation and adapt our-self according to it and then look for the opportunities within the same.
Lets focus more on what you can do in this situation rather than wasting time thinking what other did and what others should do to help you out of this situation. If people around u support you to get out of the situation nothing like it but u cant keep expecting it from them.... Its your problem and you need to solve it whether others help you or not.

The mantra is being POSITIVE... Complaining never helps .....It in fact makes you more weaker..

I know it is much tougher to practice.... but lets at least give it a try.

So lets be POSITIVE and promise to ourselves that we'll avoid complaining about anything in our life instead we'll FACE IT and overcome the same.